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A 29-year-old woman has cancelled her wedding just two weeks before the set date after discovering that her fiancé did not truly love her, but was only using her for money and convenience. Read Our Last Post: He Said, ‘Call Your Madam’ — Young-Looking Woman Shares Funny Experience After Customer Mistook Her for a Sales Girl
The young woman, who works as an accountant, said she has been in a relationship with her fiancé for about two years. In her words, she said she had believed she finally found someone who loved and understood her, but things began to change gradually, especially after she introduced her four-year-old daughter into the picture.
According to her, she is a single mother, and her daughter had been staying with her mother for almost two years. She said she took that decision because her fiancé complained that he did not like seeing her daughter around.
The man reportedly told her that seeing the little girl reminded him that she had been with another man before meeting him. Out of love and fear of losing the relationship, she allowed her mother to take care of the child just to make her fiancé happy.
However, after some months of deep thinking and emotional stress, she said she realised she could no longer continue living that way. She decided to go back and bring her daughter home.
She said, “I just got my baby back from my mother’s place where she has been living for almost two years. I had to let her stay there to avoid issues with my fiancé because he said seeing my daughter always reminds him that I have once been with another man.”
She added that despite doing everything possible to make him happy, including spending her own money on their relationship, her fiancé never appreciated her efforts.
According to her, the man has never given her a single gift since they started dating, not even on her birthday or Valentine’s Day. She said she never complained because she was hoping that with time, he would change and become a better partner.
Sadly, things got worse as the wedding day drew closer.
She explained that the wedding was just two weeks away, but her fiancé had not contributed a single penny towards the preparation. Instead, he kept telling her that his money was tied up in a blocked account, and he kept begging her to lend him money from her savings. He also asked her to take a loan on his behalf, promising that he would pay her back once he had access to his money.
The woman revealed that she had been the one financially supporting him since the beginning of their relationship. She said she never depended on him for anything because she had her own job, but it hurt her that he never tried to support her in return.
She said, “I have been the one contributing financially since day one. He always says business is slow whenever I ask for little help. Even when he gives me money, he later asks me to pay it back because he says he needs it for something.”
The woman further narrated that she moved in with her fiancé about four months ago. Since then, she had been responsible for feeding his family members whenever they came visiting during weekends. She said she made sure they were comfortable and even bought gifts for them when they were leaving.
But her fiancé did not allow her own siblings to visit, saying that there was not enough money to feed extra people. According to her, this happened even though she was the one paying for almost everything in the house, including food.
She said, “When his siblings come around, I make sure they eat well and feel happy. But my own siblings are not allowed to come around. He will always complain that we do not have enough money to feed extra people, even when the money for food comes from me.”
After enduring all these, the woman said she sat down and thought deeply about her life and her future. She asked herself if this was really the kind of man she wanted to marry and spend the rest of her life with.
She also spoke to a counsellor, who helped her realise that she was in a one-sided relationship and that things might never get better if she continued.
After the counselling session and much reflection, she decided to call off the wedding.
She said, “I had to make the painful decision to call off the wedding. I could not continue pretending that everything was fine. I have done everything to make this man happy, but he has never shown me real love or care. He does not even like my daughter, and that alone is a big red flag.”
The woman said she now feels heartbroken and confused. She wonders if she made the right decision or if she acted too quickly. She fears that at her age, it might be hard to find someone else who would love and accept her with her child.
She said, “I am 29 years old and will be 30 in four months. I am really worried. Will I ever find someone who will love me and my daughter? Can he ever change? Did I make a mistake by cancelling the wedding?”
Many people who heard her story have shown support for her decision, saying that she did the right thing by choosing her peace and her child over a man who never truly cared.
Her story has sparked emotional reactions online, especially from single mothers and women in similar situations, who said they could relate to her pain and courage.
The young woman said she is now focusing on healing and rebuilding her life with her daughter. She hopes that one day, she will meet someone who will love both of them genuinely without conditions.
