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According to her, she got married about eight months ago to a man she described as loyal, caring, and very loving. Although she did not marry him out of love, she confessed that what attracted her was how much he valued and cared for her—something she said no other man had ever done for her before.
However, their marriage has taken a sour turn as she revealed that her husband goes to the toilet more than four times a day, sometimes even five, and constantly suffers from diarrhoea. She said this habit was not visible during their courtship but became very obvious once they started living together.
In her words, “Never a day passes without him going to the toilet several times. Most times he has diarrhoea. It has become a big turn-off. Sometimes, I am ready to be with him, but once he returns from work, he runs straight to the toilet, and later he still wants to be intimate. Honestly, it is disgusting.”
She added that her affections are fading fast and she is not enjoying the marriage. According to her, she felt more comfortable when they were still dating, as she had not seen that part of him yet. Now, it is a struggle for her to keep up with the marriage.
“If I am to be very honest, I want a divorce. I am not enjoying this marriage at all. The love is fading fast,” she stated.
In a shocking twist, the woman also revealed that she had cheated on her husband twice with her ex-boyfriend because of the frustration. She admitted that she felt bad about her actions, but could not control herself due to how much the toilet situation had turned her off completely.
She wrote, “This attitude has pushed me to cheat on him with my ex two times already. I feel bad because I never meant to. But if this continues, I fear I might do it again. I cannot continue like this.”
Now, she is asking for advice on whether it is normal for a man to visit the toilet four to five times daily and if it is possible to reduce the frequency. She also wants to know if her husband needs medical attention or if there is a permanent solution to his problem.
What Do You Think?
Should this woman continue in the marriage or walk away? Is it enough reason to consider divorce? Should she have cheated, or is she being too insensitive?
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The husband should see a doctor for a diagnosis and also check his diet! The solution might be a simple change in his eating habits!
ReplyDeleteIf you love your partner the first thing in case of sickness should be how to help get treatment for healing. Her approach confirmes what she said that she didn't Mary him for love rather his humility. She has already cheated on him so there's no need to ask if she will continue or disengage. The man should go treat himself and get a woman who sincerely loves him.
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