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Pastor‘s wife who was caught in bed with her husband's brother speaks. Hear what she has to say, it's very touching.
She claimed her husband didn't touch her for 8 months that her husband fasts for 14 days, sometimes 21 days at a stretch and whenever she complains, the husband waves it aside as nothing and claims he want to serve God.
Now my question is why did he marry the lady if he knows he won't be doing his duty as a husband Why would the lady sleep with her husband brother Is the pastor clean? Was he not seeing another woman outside for him not to have touched his wife for good 8 months?
Many things are missing I just don't get!
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"Unfortunately, we don't know the husband's story and can only guess how things were from his point of view. However, if the man actually neglected the wife in the manner described, I think he was very unwise and have made it much easier for the woman to be tempted. The lady looks young, pretty and articulate. I think their marriage is probably not that long in duration that the man should have been thrilled to enjoy his wife's company and remain intimate with her.
Even though he is a Pastor, the abstinence accompanying the constant fasting and religious activities may just be excuses which indicate he probably has an extremely low sex drive, (maybe almost asexual), and have little or no interest in pleasing his wife sexually - which in itself is a sin against her, if he married her knowing well of his own lack of sexual interest ahead of time.
While I do not think the woman's action of infidelity is right, I think the man has also been rather unfair to her. The Bible clearly does not condone his actions of neglect of his "husbandly duties", especially as she is still young and in her sexual prime. He paved way for the devil to tempt his wife by denying her of what the Bible counselled should not be denied, except ocassionally for spiritual purpose by "mutual agreement".
I do pity both parties in any case, and I think it was rather unwise to expose the wife's action to the world via the viral video. That singular action makes him appear to be a vindictive person by nature. I believe he could just have quietly separated from her and not turn his family a laughing stock, if he couldn't forgive her. As for the woman, she is already condemned in the "eyes of the world" and has experienced shame due to her error, so I don't have much to say to her.
I wish she had reported the husband to his family and church elders rather than allow herself to fall into the damning temptation. I think they both husband and wife need serious prayers and counseling from people that really love them, and want their marriage to succeed. However, it is a tough job because the woman has really been so exposed and shamed that she had to put out this video.
If they can overlook what people will say, and be committed to genuinely forgiving one another, starting their relationship afresh, getting away from their current environment, correcting the errors of their way, they may yet be able rekindle the fire of their failed marriage. May God have mercy on them and come to their rescue. Amen."
