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Communications that makes marriage to be sweet and last with great love.
A lot of times, couples get pissed off with each other by the way they respond to spoken words. We can do better if we learn response in affirmative and not in the combative.
1. STATEMENT: I'm really hungry. Wrong response: Even I myself have not eaten since morning. Right response: oh sorry, let's see if there is something you can manage for now.
2. STATEMENT: Why don't you try this option?.
Wrong response: why is it that you always find fault with what I do?
Right response: well I have tried this before and I think it will work. If not, I will try that.
3. STATEMENT: I want more food.
Wrong response: ha-ha, rice has finished, Garri has finished, and ingredients are almost finished, and there's no sign of salary yet.
Right response: Sorry, please manage that for now; I will find some snacks for you later.
4. STATEMENT: I can't finish this food.
Wrong response: Haha, things are expensive o; And you can't be wasting food like this. You will eat it tomorrow.
Right response: should I keep the rest for you, or give it out?
5. STATEMENT: I Got Wounded In The Kitchen.
Wrong response: I have told you to always be careful with the knife.
Right response: Oh sorry, let me have a look. you need to be more careful next time.
6. STATEMENT: Are you okay, is anything in the matter with you?
Wrong response: Can't you see yourself; what kind of questions is that?
Right response: I'm not feeling fine; I think I need some attention.
7. STATEMENT: I will like to eat corn flakes.
Wrong response: No way! it is for the children and that's for one month. Take garri if you are hungry.
Right response: Okay, you can eat a little. I know you will give us money to stock another.
This is some good communication that makes marriage to be sweet and last with great love.
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Wow oh, thank you for this wonderful article, i will start practicing it and believe it will work for me
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